Radical Ownership & Accountability with Charles Botensten

In this episode, you'll learn:

• One man's journey from complacency to complete satisfaction
• Tips on how to stop plying the victim (and how to take ownership over your mindset/circumstances)
•  That your past doesn't define you- at any point, you can DECIDE who you want to be
• How small habits compound to bring you that much closer to your desired outcome
• The difference between making a change out of inspiration or desperation
• You always have two choices, change or stay the same: 50% of people choose to change, but how many people continue with it?
• The importance of putting things on the calendar (having something to look forward to/work towards!)
• The power of accountability
• That "someday" never comes unless you take action
• It's okay to not continuously operate at 100%, as long as you commit to showing up
• How to slowly start building habits that last (aka the key is consistency!)
• How to overcome perfectionism
• The journey/beauty of delayed gratification 
• How to speak up right away in relationships (romantic or not)
• Many people want to change a lot of people; it all starts with YOU!
• To live by example so you can positively influence those around you.
• Why you should get curious- instead of assuming you're always right
• Why you need silence to de-stimulate the brain
• The need for boundaries (without them, expect chaos)
• The difference between those who have that added layer of accountability and those that don't
• What are you bringing to the table? Why would someone choose YOU?
• Charles take on relationships (Remove the ego; we're not suitable for everyone, and not everyone is right for us.)
• Why you should prioritize the most significant thing that needs to change
• The benefit to modeling the behavior of those who have already found success where you are searching
• Recognizing cues and dynamics within romantic relationships (and how to avoid conflict ahead of time)

Questions to ask yourself:

• What do I need to start doing in my life?
• What do I need to stop doing in my life?
• What do I need to continue doing in my life?

Are you interested in learning more about our guest?

Instagram: @botensten | https://www.instagram.com/botensten/

Real Estate @bpi.homes • @bpi.uncut 

For more insight and inspiration on becoming radically fulfilled, follow me @stormybarbara on Instagram and be sure to check out www.stormybarbara.com

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